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September 2010- 2nd year anniversary with Scott Robert Lim in NYC!!

May 4, 2010

This year “2010″ will mark a  few anniversaries  that I will  be “blogging” about  along  the way. Today, I want to share a special one : In September 2008  I attended my first  workshop with Scott  Robert Lim  In Paris who subsequently became  one of my mentors; A catalyst in my  development  in  the visual arts  area.  This  meeting and workshop had a tremendous influence in the  progression of my artistic journey.  You can  read more about my adventure on  this post.

Last week Scott  announced that he was doing  a  workshop in New York  in September  and  asked me  to join him to deliver a lecture and lead a group  at the event. I was very touched and  had an epiphany. I still remember walking in the session in Paris 2 years  ago… feeling  so intimitated and so many  things have happened since …in such a  short period of  time. I  sometimes  take  this  for granted  but looking back, I  took a moment and was filled with so much gratitude and excitement.    I am often ask this question : “how   did you evolve so fast  in your art ML it’s like you have been doing this for a decade?”    Far from it  and  there is only one  answer:  my first  workshop  was the key that unlock  my  potential and  my vision.  It’s like I acquired a new set of eyes and  everything was  so crystal clear from that point.  I am still on a learning curve and  developing in  new areas right now  but  the stepping stone was  that 1st workshop I attended  with Scott.  I will  never forget my last night on the Champs Elysee Avenue 3 am in the morning  after a great  night of fun and party with new friends. I made some serious  commitments to myself and never looked back. ..in good and  bad times beyond  photography.

 I am looking forward  to this workshop  and will have a very  special  lecture   for the event  basically  “paying it forward”  for  everything  that I got  2 years ago.  I know that spaces are  limited and a lot  of people have asked me about Scott”s  Next  workshop in the east coast  so here is  the opportunity you have been waiting for!!!

You can sign up on this link : SR NYC SEPT 14-17 2010

Hope to see you there!!

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    I Like this quote I dislike this quote“An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest” Benjamin Franklin

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Japan revisited

April 8, 2010

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My mentor  Scott Robert  Lim recently held a  week  workshop  with fashion and  celebrity photographer Matthew Jordan Smith in Japan.  I met Matthew  last year at  his platform  class  in Vegas for  WPPI  and attended 4 of Scott international workshops. I knew  that  this would be an explosive combo.

Part of me wished  that  I attended. I have been hearing about what a great  experience  this was all week. I had very  good  reasons  not to attend  giving the  scope  of what I am currently working on.  At the end of the  day I had to make a choice  and  focus on some priorities  surrounding my business.  I read  the comments &  blogs of my peers who attended this workshop. Their experience  made me  re live  mine  in a way.

I  traveled to  Japan  3 years ago and it was a life changing experience.  At the time I was still mourning the loss of  my mom  in the previous  year  and   was coming out of a  relationship for  good . I had been on an emotional roller coaster  for a  year   with not much   to go on.  Working  60-70 hrs a week   on automatic pilot. Basically   buying time  with no  “life purpose” .I clearly  was depressed which I realized  later on.  

This   opportunity  came at   the right time .  One of my friend’s boyfriend  was re located  to Japan   and she  offered  me the opportunity to come  and  stay with  them  in one of the hottest, trendy areas  of Japan SHIBUYA .   I did not know  anything about  the Japanese culture   and my friend warned me   that I would  be totally disoriented with nothing familiar to hold on. Her words : “ a total culture shock” .  I  rented the cult  movie “ lost in translation”   by Sofia Coppola with actors ; Scarlett Johansson & Bill Murray.  This movie is about an established & bored America  movie star ( Murray)  who travels to Japan  and meet  Newly wed (Johansson)   and they become friends.  The movie explores  their relationship while they  discover Japan’s   cityscape in a very clever way.  I was quite intrigued by this country.

 I had initially made plans to go to Paris, at the time  I kept a humming a song  about how Paris  will  allow me to: “fall   back in love with life  again”  however  this  opportunity  came  and I  was convinced   somehow that I had to  go and discover  this “unknown” culture .  I am so glad  I did  I spent over  3 weeks in that country  and it was life changing. I  went during  the cherry blossom  early spring, a time that  is  very  important  to the Japanese tradition SAKURA “flowering cherry” I was so surprised  to hear  that  people traveled  from all over  the world  to witness this  event.And  there  I was   what an opportunity  this was to experience something so unique. What a blessing!! 

I went everywhere. From the  craziness of Tokyo  night  or day to the quiet  shrines of Nikko . From the  relaxed  green  tea by the water in Yokohama  to  the  hours of hiking to reach the  millennial sanctuaries of Kamakura . This  trip is where I started “breathing”  life again.  Appreciating the  challenges and opportunities. I started initiating  the changes I wanted for myself and taking all the responsibility during that process. I bought my first home, change job  and re-committed to my  craft and dreams. 

 I learned  about resilience, pride, excellence & quality of life. It  opened  my eyes to new possibilities  and took words like “impossible” out of my  vocabulary . In Japan  everything is possible everything can be learned, EVERYTHING CAN BE INVENTED.   What we imagine  in the  future is part of their present. IMAGINATION and INNOVATION are major building  blocks and  there is constant attention to improvement practices, self ,process , service.  Don’t get me  wrong  I am not saying that  they are perfect, I am only highlighting  the lessons  and positive aspects of  the culture I experienced. My only regret  is that I did not climb  Fiji  to watch the sunset but it  is still  on the list:-)  

 Reading  about this amazing  trip  that many  of my photog  friends recently went on  brought back so many memories.   I looked for my old hard drive where I archived pictures from that trip  there are so many  that I never posted.  So here,I am sharing  a few  of the pictures from this life changing  trip  …    Feel free to comment and share  your  own experience! Life  taste so much  sweeter when you take a moment to reflect  on where you have been and where you are in the present.ML www.marielyssa.com :-) goldbudha _MG_5990-2

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Tiger Inspires me!

April 5, 2010

Whether you follow golf or  not, this  week Masters  2010 at Augusta National  will have everyone glued to their screen to watch what could   potentially be  the biggest come back  of a  “public figure”  in history . I have my own opinion  about  the whole morality issue surrounding  Tiger   and  won’t  be spending  too much  time on that aspect. All I want to say is that  we should move on and leave him alone to deal  with his personal life. We all have issues!

 After  reading a few headlines  earlier  today listening to the overwhelming  news coverage. I started reflecting,

The  words Courage & Resilience came to mind.

How do you face a world of criticism and come back  to play at an event like this? What do you say  to your peers? .. Hi guys  How are you doing? Hey I am back!  Tiger is still standing with his head high & focused like never before. There is something wrong with this picture.  We are literally asking this guy to be  superman  .. a god, the very same  expectations that  probably brought him to that negative space.   Is this fair?

In the past  3 months I’ve read numerous articles discussing how  Tiger’s image impacted kids and his supporters and how  big of a role model he was  blah blah blah… REALLY?? What about now. Giving the guy the benefit of the doubt , Isn’t  this a great lesson in resilience & courage  in the  face  of adversity? Marketing branding  or not ..  you still have to show up  and face the world! No one is perfect/flawless  and I think  kids needs to  see that   mistakes can happen . Be sincere  and true to yourself  first! Learn,  and move on!  How many of our “public figures” never  faced the public after similar challenges ? or drowned into drugs and other addictions .  

On a personal level it inspires me to see  Tiger  through this life challenge  and  still rise up.  He had to face his demons and  a judgemental world head on! There was very  little place to hide. I  think of my own setbacks and mistakes, how hard it  is sometimes to forgive myself  &  others to move on.    How easy it is to run away  or avoid instead of dealing with the situation no matter how small… things pile up over time. Nobody likes to be in the hot seat we  tend to enjoy the elephant in the room until a major wake up call.  This is a great life lesson .

No matter what happens this week   win or lose I think there is a huge lesson of courage and resilience  in the face of adversity  and I wish him the best.  

Go get them TIGER!

(the following image is from the ESPN archive)

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 “Resolve never to quit, never to give up, no matter what the situation.” Jack Nicklaus

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“Your work is amazing!Why do you spend all your money in workshops?” he asked

April 3, 2010

March was an incredible month  of learning for me and I just spent the last  hour taking stock of all the new skills and techniques I have learned.  What a rush!

I stepped out of my comfort zone and attended :
  • a short film workshop production, 
  • a green screen workshop
  • a red camera  workshop
  • a story telling  activity
  • a self distribution tutorial
  • and just spent the last 2 days at a digital media workshop  that was so intense I had hard time going to sleep with all the knowledge I was processing.   It’s the best feeling ever!!.

I look forward to put these into practice in a variety of projects  this summer!

I was talking to a friend last night  and  telling him about the experience and  he asked: ” Lyssa why are you spending all this money on learning  like this. Your photography is amazing can it get any bettter what else do you need just practice! right?”
 
Well I was quite flattered by the compliment for 5 sec. lol I have never been the type to remain in the status quo especially when it came to learning. I told him:
 
 #1 PASSION;I LOVE IT ! Imagine, to have the opportunity to fly to a an amazing city like NY or anywhere in the world, spend time with bright and  creative minds, network, share and learn in a safe  environment WHY NOT??. passion is life.. I met a spiritual guide who once told me that passion  extends your life, people of passion live longer on average.”No matter what it is, inject passion  in your life , it’s attractive and contagious!” he said. I never researched  that for a  fact but it makes total  sense to me what is  a life without purpose and passion? I am so full of passion  I don’t know what to do with myself some days lol!! I love my life and would not want to trade any of my passions  for anything in the world..learning is definitely one of them!
 
#2. INVESTMENT; I have been brainwashed by an amazing mentor early in my life. Who convinced me  that  an investment in yourself is the best investment  that guaranteed  returned and  never devalued.   In a world where  technology is allowing people  with  no photography skills to take a decent images the deal breakers is mastery of skills; Lighting composition post processing  signature style. The ability to  get  amazing results  at a drop of  hat  consistently ! There is a difference in getting from “good” to “GREAT”!  I believe  that it is true in so many industries and disciplines.
 It’s all about being ready  for the right opportunities.  I have a vision for my studio and see  it meeting  the  future needs of  imagery in a multimedia context. All I am doing right now is filling the gaps.  Regardless of the economy investing in your skills never goes out of style. If you bring value to the market place you will never even have to look for a job . Employers & Contracts will be coming after you. I have heard these words about 10 years ago and to this day it has been my mantra.. My career in telecom was based on that principle  and  provided amazing opportunities over the past few years. My creative journey though is totally on steroids… and definitely beyond my wildest dreams.
 
#3 NETWORKING; the chance to share from and with people  that are as passionate & crazy like me YAY!. Getting invitations to collaborate on projects from all over the world. I love meeting people who complement my skill set and started to document this. I know that one day I will need a dream team to execute some projects  and these events offer the best situation  to discover dynamics and synergies. I also want to contribute and add value to the mix. Some of these people are so talented & so bright it is  inspiring  and  keeps me on my toes:-)  I love  to feel vulnerable at workshop..it means that I am open to learn.
 
My friend  said: “wow this is a real big picture lys!” He started thinking out loud about his own plans and thanked me for the inspiration. I love it!
 
—–One of the attendees shared this; A snapshot into what could represent  the future of magazines & print media . We went over  this case study:
 
DIGITAL MOTION COVER
 
Some will  see challenges and a decline in the need for traditional  photographers I see an ocean of opportunities and new options to bring visions, ideas & concepts to life. 
“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” Seneca
 
 ML
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TENSION ALERT!!

March 28, 2010

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A few months ago a good  friend surprised me  with a gift certificate  to get a massage . She had  seen me carry  a lot of my equipment on my  back for weeks and  thought  this would be  a great  treat. She and  her boyfriend  have been clients of the  Total Body Chiropractic clinic  in Toronto for years http://www.totalbodychiro.com/  and  could not stop talking about how  amazing  this clinic was for massages etc… I had not gone for a massage for while and  was looking forward to it. When I arrived  at  the center I was  a bit surprised    it did not look  like what I was used “SPA” .. it looked more like a  wellness clinic … 

 I got in and met my  therapist  Lisa. and   she asked me a few questions  about my tension areas the work I did  etc… and  I got  on the table   ready to relax for the  next  hour.

Little did I know  about what  was going to experience. The minute she  started, I  could not stop screaming  It hurt so much I started cursing and asked what type of massage  this was. She explained  that it was a  strategic chiropractic type massage to identify  tension areas and  release  them  real deep tissue stuff..I  cursed  my friend  for this  gift cerficate and could not believe that she would do this to me! Once I got  back to my senses though  I could  not believe  how much  tension was stored in  my  body  from: sitting in the wrong position, exercising muscles  without stretching,photography  & carrying things around and  stress.

Lisa took the time to explain everything  about my  body with a chart  and gave me  small tips that I could incorporate in my day to day.  She has been in wellness  since she was 16  so  she really had a wealth of knowledge .

 I  am already  very  cautious when it comes to my  eating  habits and take good care of myself  in that area but did not  realize  that  there was another  side  that was totally left out. Well,  it hurt so much  that on that same day. I booked a treatment for every week  to other week  NO EXCEPTION  and  glad to say  that I have been true to this  for the past 2 months . Its not about  finding the time  its about  MAKING  the  time  and  I love  it.   I had a treatment last  Thursday  and could totally feel the difference that  a few  changes make. Not just in  my body but  mind  and spirit too..

I feel so much lighter. I love what I do and  want to enjoy every single moment of my creative journey  so health is definitely a priority.  I could never  thank  my friend enough for this  gift even though I cursed her haha… she knew what she was doing  all along :-)

If you are in Toronto   check out the TOTAL BODY  CHIROPRACTIC CLINIC http://www.totalbodychiro.com/

ML

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